Are you confused about your sexual orientation? Have you tried one or all of the lesbian quizzes on the internet trying to figure yourself out? If you have, you probably still aren't sure. If you haven't don't waste your time. The answer lies within you...in your heart you probably already know what that answer is.
If you are seeking out quizzes and questioning your sexual orientation, something must have happened to make you do that. That is the first place you should start your inner search. Were you attracted to someone of the same sex? Did a lesbian scene in a movie or book turn you on? Ask yourself if it was a one-time thing or if it has happened before. The more attractions you have had, the more likely you are lesbian.
Along with examining your feelings toward women, you also have to think about how you've felt toward the men in your past. If there are only 1 or 2 men you can think of, but several women, that should tell you something.
Typically, the attraction will be of shorter duration and less intense that with women, however.
The most important factor is romantic attraction. In short, falling in love. If you have fallen head over heels, crazy in love with a woman, if you can't get her off your mind, you probably don't need a quiz. You probably already know and are trying to confirm it.
If you have examined all these issues and still spend significant time and emotional energy in confusion about your orientation, it might be time to consult a professional to help you sort things out. It is best to find a therapist or coach who specializes in sexuality and who you can feel comfortable with.
If you are seeking out quizzes and questioning your sexual orientation, something must have happened to make you do that. That is the first place you should start your inner search. Were you attracted to someone of the same sex? Did a lesbian scene in a movie or book turn you on? Ask yourself if it was a one-time thing or if it has happened before. The more attractions you have had, the more likely you are lesbian.
Along with examining your feelings toward women, you also have to think about how you've felt toward the men in your past. If there are only 1 or 2 men you can think of, but several women, that should tell you something.
Typically, the attraction will be of shorter duration and less intense that with women, however.
The most important factor is romantic attraction. In short, falling in love. If you have fallen head over heels, crazy in love with a woman, if you can't get her off your mind, you probably don't need a quiz. You probably already know and are trying to confirm it.
If you have examined all these issues and still spend significant time and emotional energy in confusion about your orientation, it might be time to consult a professional to help you sort things out. It is best to find a therapist or coach who specializes in sexuality and who you can feel comfortable with.
